To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are,
exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people
change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become
something you disagree with. How many parents can say that about their kids? How
many people can say that about their “lover”? Love is not about you or your pleasure or
your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give
to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY*
girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone.
It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything
you say and do and never does
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